Brian M Bessette

Brian Bessette, age 59, of Wausau, Wisconsin passed away unexpectedly on Sunday, March 8, 2026.

He was born on September 12, 1966, in Wisconsin, the son of Clayton and Janice (Zeinert) Bessette. Brian led a life imbued with warmth, kindness, and an unwavering dedication to his family and friends.

As a self-employed entrepreneur, Brian's work ethic was unmatched. He was known as a hard worker who would extend his helping hand to anyone in need, embodying a spirit of generosity and compassion that touched the lives of many. Throughout his life, he lived life to the fullest, embracing every moment with a zest that inspired those around him.

Brian was a proud father to Alex (Kourtney) Bessette, Ryan Bessette, Lily Bessette, and Jack Bessette. His role as a son, brother, father, uncle, and grandfather brought him immense joy, and these were among his proudest accomplishments. He cherished every lesson, every memory, and every laugh shared with his loved ones. Alongside his children, he created lasting traditions, often adventurous days spent fishing, hunting, and camping that will be deeply missed by them all.

His hobbies reflected his vibrant personality; an avid fisherman and hunter, Brian relished the tranquility of nature and the thrill of the outdoors. Every fishing trip and hunting excursion was not just about the activity itself, but also about the time spent together with family. A true card game enthusiast, he exhibited prowess as a “cribbage shark” and enjoyed playing chess, where his strategic mind shined through. An avid reader and devout Christian, Brian shared stories that brought laughter and joy to everyone around him, reminding us always to find light, even in our darkest moments.

Brian is survived by his beloved mother, Janice Northcott; his children, 5 grandchildren, his brothers Craig (Shelly) Bessette, James Bessette, and Andrew (Emily) Bessette; and sisters Kari (Doug) Weisshahn and Kristi (Phil) Harms. He also leaves behind cherished aunts Bonnie Matz and Marianne (Perry) Theix, many nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends.

He was preceded in death by his father, Clayton Bessette; his stepmother, Dorothy Bessette; his stepfather, William Northcott; grandparents; Aunt Jane Maki and Uncle David Zeinert. 

A memorial service for Brian will take place on Tuesday, March 17, 2026, at 11:00AM at Ascend Funeral Home & Cremation Care, 2809 Jelinek Avenue, Weston, Wisconsin 54476, with Pastor Lance Hoelscher presiding. Visitation will be held from 10:00AM until the time of service at 11:00AM. 

A life well lived, Brian leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and indelible memories. As we remember his character and spirit, we find comfort in knowing that his influence will forever remain in the hearts of those who were fortunate to know him. Brian will be dearly missed, but his spirit will live on in every heartfelt story and cherished moment shared.

Ascend Funeral Home & Cremation Care of Weston is assisting the Bessette Family with arrangements. You may sign the family guestbook at www.ascendweston.org.